10 Unrealistic And Exceptional Phobias

By Andy D Gallagher

People all over the world are afraid of something or the other whether it is water, death, cloud, height or any other thing. It depends on the capability of a person to control his nerves, and remain calm in situations; however, if a person cannot control his fear, it turns out to be a phobia.

People might have a strange feeling of phobia for different things around them. Financial, social and private life of such people is compromised over, if this habit of fear does not go away, since it is psychological disarray. It can be difficult to have control over yourself if the intensity of phobia exceeds all limits.

Many people have phobias for weird things, which are common in our lives. These phobias are usually not easy to control and are not dangerous for our lives. A few of these odd and impractical phobias are:

Ablutophobia

It is the phobia of washing, cleaning and bathing, and is usually found in women and children who are not emotionally stable.

Chorophobia

Dancing is an expression of joy and cheerfulness; can anyone be fearful of dancing? Yes, people have this phobia too!

Koumpounophobia

Buttons are things, which we would think no one would have fear of, but some people are afraid of them, and other things such as coins, discs, which are similar to buttons.

Arachibutyrophobia

Who would be afraid of peanut butter attached to the top of their mouth? Yes, many people prefer swallowing peanut butter rather than chewing it.

Phobophobia

Strange, but true is the fact that people even have phobias for developing a phobia, which usually is related to a mental confusion.

Estiophobia

A very strange phobia is estiophobia; fear of clothes. The sufferers are not afraid of the all kind of clothes but of a certain type and material. Moreover, it is found in people who are fat and middle aged; they think that clothes make them look shabbier.

Caligynephobia

Men and teenage children have a strange phobia from beautiful women. They are scared of their beauty and are usually not straight.

Scopophobia

Scopophobia is the fear of being looked at; it is a real weird one as everyone looks at someone at some point in time. Hence, it might lead to social cut-off of the sufferer.

Euphobia

One always welcomes good news, but some people have the fear of hearing good news. They are not afraid of hearing a good news but of its consequences, as they believe that a good news is always followed by a bad one.

Allodoxaphobia

Many people have a fear from other people commenting about them especially about their looks, personality, career etc. They do not prefer listening to opinions by others about them. - 31969

About the Author:

Andy D Gallagher is a training consultant. You can start a good career by taking nlp training. For more information you can visit the recommended site at http://www.inspire360.co.uk.

A Hypnotic First Date

By Richard Brus

There is a seduction technique you can use on first dates such as coffee dates that is very effective. It's called a Seductive Hypnotic Description or an 'SHD'. It works well because it bypasses a woman's conscious filters and causes her to experience the feelings necessary for her to feel a connection that is based on sexual tension.

There are lots of normal words that can be associated with sexuality and this is the foundation that Seductive Hypnotic Descriptions are built upon. 'Sensitive', 'hard', 'soft' and 'wet', are all average words that are laden with sexuality and innuendo. Seductive Hypnotic Descriptions make use of these words by utilizing them within sentences whilst describing something or telling a story. When an SHD is used to tell a story whilst adopting the correct tone and rhythm, a strong connection that is based in sexuality can be created.

Often women will reciprocate a question back to you and this is where you would use SHD's. You need to get the woman to ask you a particular question so you can use your SHD's and the easiest way to do this is to ask her the same question first.

The way to use this technique is to talk about a subject that lends itself to the possibility of you describing how you feel or think about something using a SHD. Asking a woman about the details of her very first kiss will sound strange to her if you don't lay the proper foundations for the question first. You might start by asking her where she went to school. Then you can ask her if she remembers what grade she was in when she had her very first boyfriend. From there it becomes much easier and somewhat natural to ask her a question like, "so does that mean you remember what your very first real kiss was like...?"

These kinds of questions allow her to relive the exciting romantic feelings she experienced while she is describing her first kiss to you. As she is telling you about her first kiss she will to some degree be experiencing those feelings whilst she is in your company. And the more she experiences those emotions around you, the more she'll become attracted to you. Questions like these also give you a great opportunity to use 'seductive hypnotic descriptions' to tell her about your first kiss when she reciprocates your question and asks you, "Do you remember your first kiss?"

This is when you can use a Seductive Hypnotic Description. An example might be, "...My first kiss I can definitely remember...we both ran under this big tree because it was raining and everywhere was wet...but even though I was wet, it wasn't hard to give in to the moment...I remember her how soft her lips were and how easy and natural it felt to be kissing her...even as we kissed droplets of rain fell onto our faces and wet our lips...and even though I was wet, the kiss warmed up my whole body...and that's why it's hard to forget..."

The SHD above is full of words that are laden with sexuality yet the words themselves do not connote anything sexual. Most women cannot filter out the sexual connotations these words carry as they try to grasp the meaning of the story or description. As a result, these words go straight through to their subconscious. SHD's bypass conscious filters because the structure of the sentences is somewhat perplexing to understand because of all the words laden with innuendo.

The words associated with sexuality can also be ever so slightly and subtly emphasized using a seductive tone. Even if you just spoke the above SHD in a normal tone it would still work wonders. The injection of a seductive tone has to be very subtle and not at all obvious. Another way to colour it with a seductive tone is to place a subtle emphasis on the spaces in between the sentences. To allow them to be...just slightly... longer than you would in a normal sentence. This colours the description with a seductive hypnotic rhythm.

To get the most out of SHD's, only use them in very small doses. Never make a SHD any longer than the example above. On a first date such as a coffee date, you wouldn't use anymore than two SHD's in the 40 minutes you spend with her. Becoming proficient in SHD's will require you to practice answering your own questions using SHD's. Once you can naturally and easily repeat an effective SHD, simply ask women the question you require them to ask you in order for you to try a SHD. - 31969

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Can Life Coaching Turn My Dreams Into Reality?

By Andy D Gallagher

The job of a life coach is to assist and guide you in dealing with various issues in your life. In short, the main purpose of life coaching is to help the clients achieve whatever goals they have in life, or maybe help them get over difficulties in life.

All kinds of people can seek the services of a life coach. One could be on a very prestigious post and one could be a total professional failure; that does not matter. What matters is your need for someone to guide you for direction and support. A life coach can give you pointers about things, like a career change or regarding difficult decisions in your life.

Moreover, you could be a mother, or a housewife who needs to figure out what to do with her life. Finally, you could be a person who needs a more positive, and optimistic outlook towards life. No matter what the problem, a life coach can help you get through it.

Life coaching can basically be divided into two basic categories. The first category is personal life coaching, which helps you with the issues of your personal life. If you are at a certain crossroads in your life where you think you need help deciding what to do next, and what step to take, a life coach can help you decide the best option. Similarly, if you think you lack certain personality traits such as confidence, and strength, then you can hire a life coach who can help you achieve this.

There is also professional life coaching. Sometimes, there is lack of motivation and a need to switch careers. That is where a life coach can help you weigh the pros and cons of each decision. Also, a life coach can help you enhance your performance and effectiveness. Not just that, he/she can help you gain extra confidence and a drive to excel. Hence, a life coach can be a great professional helper.

A life coach can definitely help you achieve your dreams. If you have a certain purpose in life, or a specific goal, you can always hire a life coach who can help you work towards the fulfilment of that purpose. Most of us have a dream that we want to bring to reality, and we know that we have it within ourselves to make that happen.

The strain and tension of everyday life leaves very little time for one to pursue personal dreams. In the course of this fight for survival, potentials happen to get wasted. A life coach can solve this problem by organizing the schedule of his/her client in a way that helps them balance the strings of their responsibilities. This is complemented by working on the motivation factor and pumping more optimism in the outlook.

Nowadays, coaching has become a popular profession, and there are many life coaches, which you can hire for their services. You can either find one through reference, or through the internet, or hire them to help you achieve your life dreams. - 31969

About the Author:

Andy D Gallagher is a training consultant. You can start a good career by taking nlp practitioner training. For more information you can visit the recommended site at http://www.inspire360.co.uk.