There is a seduction technique you can use on first dates such as coffee dates that is very effective. It's called a Seductive Hypnotic Description or an 'SHD'. It works well because it bypasses a woman's conscious filters and causes her to experience the feelings necessary for her to feel a connection that is based on sexual tension.
There are lots of normal words that can be associated with sexuality and this is the foundation that Seductive Hypnotic Descriptions are built upon. 'Sensitive', 'hard', 'soft' and 'wet', are all average words that are laden with sexuality and innuendo. Seductive Hypnotic Descriptions make use of these words by utilizing them within sentences whilst describing something or telling a story. When an SHD is used to tell a story whilst adopting the correct tone and rhythm, a strong connection that is based in sexuality can be created.
Often women will reciprocate a question back to you and this is where you would use SHD's. You need to get the woman to ask you a particular question so you can use your SHD's and the easiest way to do this is to ask her the same question first.
The way to use this technique is to talk about a subject that lends itself to the possibility of you describing how you feel or think about something using a SHD. Asking a woman about the details of her very first kiss will sound strange to her if you don't lay the proper foundations for the question first. You might start by asking her where she went to school. Then you can ask her if she remembers what grade she was in when she had her very first boyfriend. From there it becomes much easier and somewhat natural to ask her a question like, "so does that mean you remember what your very first real kiss was like...?"
These kinds of questions allow her to relive the exciting romantic feelings she experienced while she is describing her first kiss to you. As she is telling you about her first kiss she will to some degree be experiencing those feelings whilst she is in your company. And the more she experiences those emotions around you, the more she'll become attracted to you. Questions like these also give you a great opportunity to use 'seductive hypnotic descriptions' to tell her about your first kiss when she reciprocates your question and asks you, "Do you remember your first kiss?"
This is when you can use a Seductive Hypnotic Description. An example might be, "...My first kiss I can definitely remember...we both ran under this big tree because it was raining and everywhere was wet...but even though I was wet, it wasn't hard to give in to the moment...I remember her how soft her lips were and how easy and natural it felt to be kissing her...even as we kissed droplets of rain fell onto our faces and wet our lips...and even though I was wet, the kiss warmed up my whole body...and that's why it's hard to forget..."
The SHD above is full of words that are laden with sexuality yet the words themselves do not connote anything sexual. Most women cannot filter out the sexual connotations these words carry as they try to grasp the meaning of the story or description. As a result, these words go straight through to their subconscious. SHD's bypass conscious filters because the structure of the sentences is somewhat perplexing to understand because of all the words laden with innuendo.
The words associated with sexuality can also be ever so slightly and subtly emphasized using a seductive tone. Even if you just spoke the above SHD in a normal tone it would still work wonders. The injection of a seductive tone has to be very subtle and not at all obvious. Another way to colour it with a seductive tone is to place a subtle emphasis on the spaces in between the sentences. To allow them to be...just slightly... longer than you would in a normal sentence. This colours the description with a seductive hypnotic rhythm.
To get the most out of SHD's, only use them in very small doses. Never make a SHD any longer than the example above. On a first date such as a coffee date, you wouldn't use anymore than two SHD's in the 40 minutes you spend with her. Becoming proficient in SHD's will require you to practice answering your own questions using SHD's. Once you can naturally and easily repeat an effective SHD, simply ask women the question you require them to ask you in order for you to try a SHD. - 31969
There are lots of normal words that can be associated with sexuality and this is the foundation that Seductive Hypnotic Descriptions are built upon. 'Sensitive', 'hard', 'soft' and 'wet', are all average words that are laden with sexuality and innuendo. Seductive Hypnotic Descriptions make use of these words by utilizing them within sentences whilst describing something or telling a story. When an SHD is used to tell a story whilst adopting the correct tone and rhythm, a strong connection that is based in sexuality can be created.
Often women will reciprocate a question back to you and this is where you would use SHD's. You need to get the woman to ask you a particular question so you can use your SHD's and the easiest way to do this is to ask her the same question first.
The way to use this technique is to talk about a subject that lends itself to the possibility of you describing how you feel or think about something using a SHD. Asking a woman about the details of her very first kiss will sound strange to her if you don't lay the proper foundations for the question first. You might start by asking her where she went to school. Then you can ask her if she remembers what grade she was in when she had her very first boyfriend. From there it becomes much easier and somewhat natural to ask her a question like, "so does that mean you remember what your very first real kiss was like...?"
These kinds of questions allow her to relive the exciting romantic feelings she experienced while she is describing her first kiss to you. As she is telling you about her first kiss she will to some degree be experiencing those feelings whilst she is in your company. And the more she experiences those emotions around you, the more she'll become attracted to you. Questions like these also give you a great opportunity to use 'seductive hypnotic descriptions' to tell her about your first kiss when she reciprocates your question and asks you, "Do you remember your first kiss?"
This is when you can use a Seductive Hypnotic Description. An example might be, "...My first kiss I can definitely remember...we both ran under this big tree because it was raining and everywhere was wet...but even though I was wet, it wasn't hard to give in to the moment...I remember her how soft her lips were and how easy and natural it felt to be kissing her...even as we kissed droplets of rain fell onto our faces and wet our lips...and even though I was wet, the kiss warmed up my whole body...and that's why it's hard to forget..."
The SHD above is full of words that are laden with sexuality yet the words themselves do not connote anything sexual. Most women cannot filter out the sexual connotations these words carry as they try to grasp the meaning of the story or description. As a result, these words go straight through to their subconscious. SHD's bypass conscious filters because the structure of the sentences is somewhat perplexing to understand because of all the words laden with innuendo.
The words associated with sexuality can also be ever so slightly and subtly emphasized using a seductive tone. Even if you just spoke the above SHD in a normal tone it would still work wonders. The injection of a seductive tone has to be very subtle and not at all obvious. Another way to colour it with a seductive tone is to place a subtle emphasis on the spaces in between the sentences. To allow them to be...just slightly... longer than you would in a normal sentence. This colours the description with a seductive hypnotic rhythm.
To get the most out of SHD's, only use them in very small doses. Never make a SHD any longer than the example above. On a first date such as a coffee date, you wouldn't use anymore than two SHD's in the 40 minutes you spend with her. Becoming proficient in SHD's will require you to practice answering your own questions using SHD's. Once you can naturally and easily repeat an effective SHD, simply ask women the question you require them to ask you in order for you to try a SHD. - 31969
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