NLP and seduction have long been associated with each other. Nero Linguistic Programming (NLP) is a term used to describe the way in which our brains adhere to specific patterns of communication dependent on our personality type. Once we can begin to understand these patterns, triggers and Meta models, we can use them to our advantage whilst communicating with women.
When we cause a woman to align and harmonize with our desires and intentions through the use of effective communication, it is known as seduction.
Seduction and NLP go hand in hand. By swiftly interpreting which kind of system a woman is primarily employing, a man can apply the same system to build trust and connection more effectively. Building trust and rapport are essential factors in seduction.
People adopt a certain type of representational system whilst communicating and primarily use one of four possible systems dependent on their personality type. The four representational systems are classified as audio, visual, olfactory and kinesthetic. When a man communicates with a woman whilst adopting her representational system to do so, he can build a connection with her much sooner than if he was to ignore this conversational dynamic.
Someone who is operating through the lens of a visual system will often communicate using terminology associated with vision. A typical example might be, "Try to picture what I'm saying here. As soon as you can envision what I mean you'll probably change your view point. Then you'll be able to see what I mean"
With a little practice it can become simple for you to adopt the same representational system in your conversational dynamics as the woman you are flirting with. It gives the woman the impression that you just seem to be able to speak her language.
When 'audio' is a woman's primary representational system you'll hear her use dialog such as, "When I heard it, it was like music to my ears. His idea just sounded so good and I'm so glad I listened. After that I just tuned out and quietly imagined what it would be like"
If the kinaesthetic system is her personal hierarchy you'll hear numerous words in sentences that will be associated with feelings and touch. An example would be, "I don't feel like I've touched on the subject properly with him. I wish he'd warm to the idea and talk about it because I feel it would soften his hurt somewhat"
People rarely use the olfactory system as their preferred representational system as the majority of people are visual, audio or kinaesthetic. However, an example would sound like, "The weather was cold and bitter but the smell of the rain was nice. The icing on the cake was him bringing a jumper for me. I thought that was very tastefully done"
Now that you can understand and identify the different preferred representational systems that women use you'll be able to easily adopt the same system at will, and increase the quality of your connection with women. A communication breakdown on a very subliminal level can be found in the following example.
If a woman was communicating with you and she said, "I like the look of that place and I can picture myself going there someday", she would be classified as a 'visual'. If a man was to respond using the 'audio' system with something like, "That does sound good. It's got a good vibe and it seems nice and peaceful like you could just tune out. I hear you and its quiet a good idea, I must say"
Although the man is agreeing with the woman in the above example, to her it still seems like he is speaking a different language. It will rub her the wrong way at a subconscious level and she won't feel totally connected to him. However, if the man responded with, "I can see what you mean, that does look good. I too could definitely visualize myself going there", the outcome would be a lot different and the woman would be more at ease around the man.
When a man can easily identify the woman's preferred representational system and is able to utilize the same system, it's natural for the woman to feel more comfortable around the man. It can become easy with a little practice and it's always an advantage to have this embedded within your conversational dynamics. - 31969
When we cause a woman to align and harmonize with our desires and intentions through the use of effective communication, it is known as seduction.
Seduction and NLP go hand in hand. By swiftly interpreting which kind of system a woman is primarily employing, a man can apply the same system to build trust and connection more effectively. Building trust and rapport are essential factors in seduction.
People adopt a certain type of representational system whilst communicating and primarily use one of four possible systems dependent on their personality type. The four representational systems are classified as audio, visual, olfactory and kinesthetic. When a man communicates with a woman whilst adopting her representational system to do so, he can build a connection with her much sooner than if he was to ignore this conversational dynamic.
Someone who is operating through the lens of a visual system will often communicate using terminology associated with vision. A typical example might be, "Try to picture what I'm saying here. As soon as you can envision what I mean you'll probably change your view point. Then you'll be able to see what I mean"
With a little practice it can become simple for you to adopt the same representational system in your conversational dynamics as the woman you are flirting with. It gives the woman the impression that you just seem to be able to speak her language.
When 'audio' is a woman's primary representational system you'll hear her use dialog such as, "When I heard it, it was like music to my ears. His idea just sounded so good and I'm so glad I listened. After that I just tuned out and quietly imagined what it would be like"
If the kinaesthetic system is her personal hierarchy you'll hear numerous words in sentences that will be associated with feelings and touch. An example would be, "I don't feel like I've touched on the subject properly with him. I wish he'd warm to the idea and talk about it because I feel it would soften his hurt somewhat"
People rarely use the olfactory system as their preferred representational system as the majority of people are visual, audio or kinaesthetic. However, an example would sound like, "The weather was cold and bitter but the smell of the rain was nice. The icing on the cake was him bringing a jumper for me. I thought that was very tastefully done"
Now that you can understand and identify the different preferred representational systems that women use you'll be able to easily adopt the same system at will, and increase the quality of your connection with women. A communication breakdown on a very subliminal level can be found in the following example.
If a woman was communicating with you and she said, "I like the look of that place and I can picture myself going there someday", she would be classified as a 'visual'. If a man was to respond using the 'audio' system with something like, "That does sound good. It's got a good vibe and it seems nice and peaceful like you could just tune out. I hear you and its quiet a good idea, I must say"
Although the man is agreeing with the woman in the above example, to her it still seems like he is speaking a different language. It will rub her the wrong way at a subconscious level and she won't feel totally connected to him. However, if the man responded with, "I can see what you mean, that does look good. I too could definitely visualize myself going there", the outcome would be a lot different and the woman would be more at ease around the man.
When a man can easily identify the woman's preferred representational system and is able to utilize the same system, it's natural for the woman to feel more comfortable around the man. It can become easy with a little practice and it's always an advantage to have this embedded within your conversational dynamics. - 31969
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